small victories

sheer excitement

this week is for small victories.

mathew started a new (and much better, I hope) job

i joined a meet up group for mamas who are entrepeneurs in my area…and happened to meet my neighbor across the way

i sold my first custom shirt to a client and made an awesome contact (must stop wanting to adopt clients as friends)

my 8 month old daughter is peeing in the toilet…and i don’t mean the plastic baby ones either

i’ve been blessed with kind people in my life lately

when one door closes…

This new year hasn’t started out exactly as I’d hoped.  You see, we’d gotten this momentum of good things going and had slightly figured things out…but as the world does, it threw a kink in the plan.  When Mat went to work after the mandatory break they made him take UNPAID from the 24th – 1st, they told him they were not only cutting his hours from 40 to 37, but also decreasing his pay by $3.00/hr.  Perhaps some people don’t notice an extra $10K a year missing form their paycheck, but in this house, every penny counts.  Ouch.  This has come as a pretty big blow.  Especially since I am still ticked at this company for saying they were going to get health insurance and still not doing it.  We are a ticking time bomb with no health insurance.  Did I mention my baby girl has her first runny nose of her entire life, but it’s a good thing I am not one of those “rush to the Dr.” types of Mama’s because we can’t afford it.  Dear Australia, I miss you, and your philosophy that Healthcare is a RIGHT, not a privilege.

All of that is about to change.  A few new doors and other opportunities have been opened.  My husband has integrity.  He is a ballroom dance instructor…he sells an elegant, true-to-form service.  He doesn’t take ridiculous amounts of people’s money and sell them crap and call it gold.  This studio had the word “Ballroom” in their name, but they didn’t want to teach ballroom dancing…they wanted to teach country and western dancing in their blue jeans to the younger crowd but still charge them $116/lesson.  Their marketing was not matching their service.  This is probably the reason they are going under.  It’s really a shame…the financial backer of the whole thing was a really lovely lady.  Anyway…glad my husband has gotten out of their before he sank with the ship.  In one day he has left one job and been offered two with another interview tomorrow as well.  Secretly, I am hoping he takes the job at the dance studio — it’s the studio his job in Atlanta had taken their business plan from so it’s something he is very familiar with.  They are incredibly successful and friendly.  Plus I might be able to do some work from home for them.  They get my vote!!

On a different note…I have started making my own bread.  It was DELISH.  So incredibly happy with how it turned out.  Even happier that I froze two loaves worth of dough.  It took 6 hours, but totally worth it.  Dear Santa, next year I want a bread machine.

homemade wheat bread...mmmm

I’m into making things at the moment.  I’m a real Martha Stewart.  For lunch today I had homemade broccoli and cheese soup (thank you magic bullet).  Oh, did I mention, I’m back on dairy!  WHOOHOO.  Tanami has not seemed to be bothered by it.  Though I am limiting it simply because my body (while it may be smaller) feels happier when it isn’t bogged down with cow’s milk.  Speaking of making things…I’ve found a few recipes I can’t wait to try out.  Nope, they aren’t for food.  One is for dishwasher detergent, and another one is for all-purpose cleaner.  Seeing how I am into all things natural…I’m ditching the green cleaning solution that I currently use and making my own.  My kid likes to lick things…doors, the oven, the fridge…so I want to be cleaning these things that are safe for her — and if I am lucky things that might deter her from such strange activities.  Our dishwasher is pretty crap at getting things clean so I can only imagine the ick that is left on the  dishes.  No thanks.

I also broke out the sewing machine and made an attempt at sewing…a finger puppet.  So maybe there is a hole in it from where the sewing machine went absolutely crazy fast and I couldn’t control it…but otherwise, I think I did well not to sew my finger to it.  I just have a problem of wanting things to happen immediately without so much as reading an instruction manual….but I think I am going to have to suck it up and read about it a bit.

To get in the habit of practicing with my camera, I’ve started the 365 project.  You can follow me here  I don’t know if I will really complete it since I am already finding it difficult to find the time every day to get a photo decent enough to put on it.  I am wanting to change the layout of my blog a bit anyway and make it more about photos and less about words.  Don’t photos speak a thousand words anyway?  I don’t know…but I’m finding myself wanting to withdraw from technology these days.  My little shadow doesn’t allow me much time to myself and I think time is better spent doing things like showering than typing out long blog posts.

Life is changing quickly.  I can’t wait to see what this week will bring.

2012 improvements

I don’t like the word “resolution”.  So here is a short list of “improvements” I’d like to make in my life for 2012.

Reflect More.

Those moments spent in the quiet dark while rocking my girl to sleep are some of the most lending for thought.

Say Yes.

To chances, adventures, the unknown, and most importantly to the times I assume things will turn out in a negative way.

Be present.

We are in the States.  I must learn to appreciate where we are today, and not get fixated on where we are going.

Craft more.

I will conquer the sewing machine.  I will conquer the DSLR (complete the 365 project).  I will make home-made goodies.

Eat Breakfast.

Breakfast is our only meal time as a family – make it a priority.

Make plans.

Begin working on our business plan for the dance studio.

Remember ME.

I won’t neglect myself, or forget that I am more than just a wife & mother.  I have a career, hobbies, thoughts, and feelings of my own.

Live wholesome.

Real food.  Real products.  Real values.

Frugal (well)living.

Continue to pay down the loan without compromising our health or happiness.

Get healthy.

Gain weight by eating well, build muscle, remember my vitamins.

Be thankful.

A beautiful family, roof over our heads, food in our bellies, and money in the bank.  Life. is. good.

2012….ready, set. GO.

2011 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

The concert hall at the Syndey Opera House holds 2,700 people. This blog was viewed about 22,000 times in 2011. If it were a concert at Sydney Opera House, it would take about 8 sold-out performances for that many people to see it.

Click here to see the complete report.

I felt this appropriate as my 400th blog post :)

Happy New Year Everyone!  Be safe – Bring on 2012!!!

one door closes, one more opens

This year….

I rang in the New Year in flip flops and a tank top dancing swing, cha cha, and mambo in front of a huge crowd in the heart of Canberra

I spent 4 months being uncomfortably pregnant

I spent 13 hours with contractions less than 5 minutes apart, and brought a baby girl into the world exactly how I planned – completely naturally without any medication.  On April 26th at 8:30am, I morphed from a childless woman into a Mother and I held my silent, calm, perfect baby girl for the first time.

I fell perfectly into Motherhood – I relished the ability to snap back into my pre-pregnancy body in a week, loved that my baby slept for 12-hour-stretches, and felt completely at ease with this new little being.  I was incredibly grateful.

I was present for every single “first” for Tanami – the first time she smiled, laughed, grabbed a toy, sat up, crawled, pulled her self up, ate solid food, stood by herself – I know every sound, cue, and communication she makes.

I spent 9 months in a country I have come to know as home.  I savored every moment because I knew it would be coming to a end this year.

I went to the coast, to the mountains, and to the city (Sydney).  I went to museums, on bush walks, and was surrounded by wildlife.

I trained an incredible lady to take over my role after opening an Interior Design sector of the kitchen company.  I then started a new business venture upon returning to the States.

We payed off $30,000 of my student loan and made of goal of a 20% down payment on a house.

We celebrated our third wedding anniversary, his 34th birthday, and my 27th birthday.

We returned as a family to a country we had once left as a couple.  We overcame obstacles, battled negativity, and found our way again.

I changed – for the better, the worse, my self, my child, the way I thought, the way I ate, my outlook, my circumstances, my beliefs.

I’ve learned from my mistakes and successes.  I’m not the same person I was this day one year ago, and I hope that this day one year from now I am not the same person I am today.

 

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